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We bought a house! Your home buying questions answered

March 9, 2022 By Melanie No Comments

Well fam, if you missed the announcement on my Instagram, Bay and I bought a house here in Denver! You can see a sneak peek of the interior HERE. After six years of renting in NYC and another year of renting here in Colorado, it feels absolutely amazing to own our own home! We have a little time before we actually move in, so before I start inundating you with way too much home content, I thought I’d get the ball rolling by answering some of the questions you all submitted in my IG story poll last week!

I’ve been having so many great conversations after the announcement with other people who are about to make a big move to Denver and it makes me so happy to know that this city is continuing to grow in popularity. I have a big Denver Guide that I’ll be releasing within the next week, so keep an eye out for that!

If you’re considering buying a home here in Denver or are just curious about the home buying process in general, I hope you find the following answers insightful! I did my best to consolidate the questions that were the most similar but I do tend to be long-winded so feel free to skip ahead if this is all just way too much info. haha

Without further adieu, here are your home buying questions, answered:

What are the best Denver neighborhoods for young couples?

Thankfully the city of Denver and the metro area have lots of great neighborhoods for young couples and families to choose from! If you want a true city vibe with walkability and lots of fun places to eat, drink, etc then LoDo (lower downtown) is awesome. Since it is the most “city” part of Denver, there are probably more condos than single family homes available but it’s a great option for renting!

If you want a neighborhood that’s super close to downtown, then Highlands is probably your best bet. LoHi is a little too young in my opinion (college feel) but West Highlands, Sloans Lake, and even Berkeley have some nice houses in walking distance of lots of cafes, bars and restaurants. Arvada is just north of Berkeley and is considered a suburb of Denver, but from what I hear it’s a great option for young couples who want accessibility to the mountains while also being within a 10 min drive to downtown Denver.

RiNo is fun and more of an up and coming neighborhood in Denver. We personally didn’t consider it because there are areas of RiNo that aren’t as safe as some other areas of the city. However, it’s definitely a place we like to visit often just for the amount of breweries and restaurants that are there.

I’m a HUGE fan of Wash Park and wish we could have found a home here. But unfortunately inventory is low and the homes that did pop up were out of our price range. This was also the case with Cherry Creek and Congress Park, but I definitely think if you can find something that fits your budget within those areas they are beautiful, safe neighborhoods.

South Denver and Centennial have a lot of great options and even though the latter is technically a suburb, it still has a lot of walkable areas with coffee shops, fitness studios and restaurants. The appealing thing about Centennial is that the houses are newer and the neighborhood borders two highways, making the drive to the highlands and to the mountains about equidistance to living in Wash Park.

How far over asking did you have to go? Does it need to be all cash?

Unfortunately with the way this market is, we knew we were going to have to go over asking price in order to have an enticing enough offer to even be considered. This played a huge role in the base price of houses we were even including in our search and it was super helpful that the one we found was listed at about 25% less than the max cost we were willing to pay.

Right as we were thinking of putting in an offer, someone came in with a very aggressive bid and day of deadline. We worked with our realtor to turn around a counteroffer within a matter of hours and ended up going about 20% over the original asking (which essentially put us super close to our max budget).

As part two of this question, there’s no way we would have put everything down in cash and thankfully that’s not expected in this market. The amount of cash you need to save for earnest money and your downpayment will all depend on the type of mortgage you choose and the price of the house you buy.

Did you find any banks or mortgage companies helpful?

Yes, we worked with Dan from Strive Mortgage Team and they were super helpful through the entire process! Getting the correct paperwork together can be a hassle but once it was in their hands we were pleased with how quickly things came together. We made sure to get pre-approved prior to beginning our search and from there it was a lot of discussions around conventional vs. jumbo loans, interest rates, and what mortgage option would be the best for us given both of our credit scores and income level. They were kind enough to send us some Crumbl cookies after we closed on the house as a congratulatory gift, so that was a nice added touch.

How did you pick the area/neighborhood while navigating crazy prices?

As I mentioned earlier, we would have loved to stay in Wash Park but the inventory and pricing just didn’t work out for us. Our realtor warned us ahead of time that sacrifices would have to be made either based on the type of house we buy or the neighborhood we chose. After viewing many open houses all in different neighborhoods within Denver, we ultimately decided that the quality of the house mattered more to us than the neighborhood. This mindset allowed us to open up our search area to include more neighborhoods in the Denver Metro Area that we were originally closed off to and with it came a fresh crop of houses that were a much better fit for what we both wanted.

Thankfully, we didn’t end up having to sacrifice safety, park & highway access, and walkability so I’m VERY grateful. I know that if we had stayed in Wash Park we would have ended up with a house that’s over 100 years old and in need of major renovations. After weighing out the pros and cons of that, we couldn’t stomach paying as much as we would have to just to turn around and dump more money into modernizing the house.

The home we bought is move in ready and aside from some minor aesthetic changes to the bathrooms and painting walls, it’s exactly what we were looking for. At the end of the day, that was the right call for us and we’re okay with saying goodbye to Wash Park to opt for a neighborhood just a few min south. At the end of the day, in this kind of market some sacrifices will have to be made. It’s up to you to decide what is more of a priority for you. If neighborhood is number one, then you’ll just have to know that renovating will be something you will most likely need to budget for.

How long did it take you to find a house in Denver?

In the grand scheme of things, not too long at all! We started the official search in November and bought our house in February. So just 3 months? I know a lot of that was luck because in December the inventory was so bad and the houses we looked at in January were starting to make us feel pretty disappointed in general. It’s easy to get your hopes up and I’m a terribly emotional person, which made the process of looking mentally exhausting.

I know it sounds cliche but I do believe that you’ll know pretty immediately when you find the right one. There were a few that we were originally excited about and we even had put an offer on a different one and lost. But aside from the other one we put an offer on, none of the others felt like “the one” to both of us. After walking through this last one, we both had a moment of looking at each other during the walk through and there was almost an unspoken agreement. It felt like home and that’s why the next evening when we got the frantic call that someone had put an aggressive offer on it, we knew we were willing to try and outbid them immediately.

Houses pop up and literally close within 24-48 hours here, so my suggestion to anyone who is looking to buy is BE LOCAL and BE FLEXIBLE. Even if it means you have to rent or stay at an extended stay airbnb for a month or so. Being local means you can drop what you’re doing in the middle of the day to go see a house the minute it’s available for showing. We saw our house the first day it was available and our offer deadline ended up being the next evening, even though they had over 70 showings booked through the weekend! Buyers are not afraid to be aggressive, so timeliness is everything.

How much should you allot for closing costs? How long did closing take?

Thankfully, once the offer was accepted we were able to close in a matter of weeks with the help of our realtor, Kate Kazell and Strive Mortgage Team. From what we’ve learned, it’s best practice to save up at least 6% of the loan balance for closing costs but the more you can save the better. We ended up allotting about 20% to our downpayment to get our monthly mortgage to a place we felt would be more manageable. I know that’s not something everyone can or wants to do, which is why it’s also so important to make sure you’re working with a good mortgage company that can walk you through the best type of loan and downpayment plan that fits your budget.

I hope you all found this helpful as you begin your own house buying adventure! If you have any additional questions don’t be afraid to ask. Send me a DM or leave a question in the comments here. And stay tuned for lots of home content coming this summer once we move in!

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Despite having lived in NYC through my 20s, I never woke up and decided that I felt like walking the entirety of Manhattan in a day… but now that I’m back here with a friend it felt like the perfect way to show her around the city that will always feel like home to me ☺️💕

It was a looong day of walking and my feet are TIRED today but wow was it worth it! If you’re ever in NYC I def recommend doing the “broad city walk” challenge and trying this out yourself. I promise you won’t regret it 

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You all know I love my “move, nourish, self-care” formula for mindful morning routines and this time, that looked like:

✨making my bed (the love for gingham continues) 
✨a BIG second pumpkin spice cake coffee topped with cinnamon in my Luke’s Diner mug 
✨B and I baked a homemade pumpkin cinnamon sourdough loaf together (my first time!) and it is sooo good
✨ never skipping the skincare essentials, especially a chilled balm for these tired mama eyes 
✨ a chocolate brown matching set is def the vibe this season 
✨ squeezed in a 30 min barre sculpt workout and it was spicy 

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{you can find the recipe for the apple cider cocktails in one of my previous reels}

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The focus shifts away from “things” and leans more into small rituals that make you feel grounded, content and present in the moment 

Here are 6 ways to add more hygge into your daily routines:

✨create cozy morning rituals✨

Instead of rushing into the day, try adding one or two elements to your mornings that feel a bit more calm and intentional. For example you can play soft music while you get ready or light your favorite candle while sipping on your coffee ☕️ 

✨make meals feel special ✨

Make mealtime extra cozy and mindful by putting away electronics, using your favorite plates & glassware, or making dishes that evoke a sense of nostalgia and childhood comfort 

✨ add touches of warmth & softness✨

Keep extra blankets nearby, switch to lamps or candlelight in the evening, and rotate in seasonal accents to make your home feel more inviting 

✨bring nature inside✨

Hygge is all about being connected to the natural world — so open up the window to let the crisp air in, buy yourself a seasonal bouquet, or use pumpkins to decorate your home 

✨make time for connection✨

Life is all about who we share it with and cozy season is a great excuse to meet your friend for a PSL, have more family dinners, and host comforting gatherings with loved ones 

✨embrace slow evenings✨

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I’ll be sharing some of my personal favorites all season long and the first up are these adorable watercolor books… which are basically the adult version of coloring

They’re the perfect activity to unwind, get creative and intentionally get off your phone 😉. Bonus — each page includes a step by step so they are very beginner friendly AND they only take about 10-15 min. Perfect for squeezing in when you’re short on time but need a min to just “be” 

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SAVE this recipe and let me know if you’ll be giving it a try: 

✨2oz bourbon 
✨3oz apple cider 
✨ juice from 1/2 lemon 
✨ @drinkolipop Crisp Apple soda 

Add the first 3 ingredients over ice in a cocktail shaker and shake well! Pour evenly into two glasses (or the empty Olipop cans for extra cute presentation) and top with the crisp apple soda

Garnish with a lemon wedge and sprig of rosemary! 

✨If you want to make an N/A version just replace the bourbon with @seedlipdrinks Spice 94 ✨

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I’ll be sharing lots of cozy routines, hobbies, crafts and recipes throughout September so I hope you stick around to celebrate the seasonal transition with me ☺️

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✨ juice from 1/2 lemon
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It was a looong day of walking and my feet are TIRED today but wow was it worth it! If you’re ever in NYC I def recommend doing the “broad city walk” challenge and trying this out yourself. I promise you won’t regret it 

Shoutout to @shaylaquinn for the inspo 👟

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Peep my stories to find out our destination… but if you know me, you probably already know where we are headed 😉

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You all know I love my “move, nourish, self-care” formula for mindful morning routines and this time, that looked like:

✨making my bed (the love for gingham continues) 
✨a BIG second pumpkin spice cake coffee topped with cinnamon in my Luke’s Diner mug 
✨B and I baked a homemade pumpkin cinnamon sourdough loaf together (my first time!) and it is sooo good
✨ never skipping the skincare essentials, especially a chilled balm for these tired mama eyes 
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{you can find the recipe for the apple cider cocktails in one of my previous reels}

Send this to someone you want to have a Harry Potter outdoor movie night with! 

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As the seasons start to shift, it’s a great time As the seasons start to shift, it’s a great time to welcome a little more hygge (a danish concept that is all about creating a quality of coziness and comfort) into our lives 🤎🧸

The focus shifts away from “things” and leans more into small rituals that make you feel grounded, content and present in the moment 

Here are 6 ways to add more hygge into your daily routines:

✨create cozy morning rituals✨

Instead of rushing into the day, try adding one or two elements to your mornings that feel a bit more calm and intentional. For example you can play soft music while you get ready or light your favorite candle while sipping on your coffee ☕️ 

✨make meals feel special ✨

Make mealtime extra cozy and mindful by putting away electronics, using your favorite plates & glassware, or making dishes that evoke a sense of nostalgia and childhood comfort 

✨ add touches of warmth & softness✨

Keep extra blankets nearby, switch to lamps or candlelight in the evening, and rotate in seasonal accents to make your home feel more inviting 

✨bring nature inside✨

Hygge is all about being connected to the natural world — so open up the window to let the crisp air in, buy yourself a seasonal bouquet, or use pumpkins to decorate your home 

✨make time for connection✨

Life is all about who we share it with and cozy season is a great excuse to meet your friend for a PSL, have more family dinners, and host comforting gatherings with loved ones 

✨embrace slow evenings✨

Create a sense of calm before bed by creating slow, intentional rituals. Make a cup of tea, read a book or do a calming hobby, and put on comfy loungewear 

How are you adding a little more coziness into your routine this autumn? 

#fallmood #fallvibes #cozyseason #littlejoys #cozyrituals #comfortcreator #softwellness
I don’t know who needs to hear this but cozy hob I don’t know who needs to hear this but cozy hobbies are 100% the self-care we all need in this busy season of life 🎨 

I’ll be sharing some of my personal favorites all season long and the first up are these adorable watercolor books… which are basically the adult version of coloring

They’re the perfect activity to unwind, get creative and intentionally get off your phone 😉. Bonus — each page includes a step by step so they are very beginner friendly AND they only take about 10-15 min. Perfect for squeezing in when you’re short on time but need a min to just “be” 

Let me know if you’re excited to see more cozy crafts & hobby ideas for fall and the upcoming holiday season! I have lots of new things I want to try and can’t wait to share 🤎

#cozyhobbies #hobbies #selfcaretips #fallvibes #autumncrafts #autumnselfcare #intentionalliving #mindfulmoments #softwellness #happyhabits
Say hello to your new cutie cocktail for the autum Say hello to your new cutie cocktail for the autumn season that’s PERFECT for hosting friends! 🍎 It’s light, refreshing and so easy to turn into a mocktail as well 

SAVE this recipe and let me know if you’ll be giving it a try: 

✨2oz bourbon 
✨3oz apple cider 
✨ juice from 1/2 lemon 
✨ @drinkolipop Crisp Apple soda 

Add the first 3 ingredients over ice in a cocktail shaker and shake well! Pour evenly into two glasses (or the empty Olipop cans for extra cute presentation) and top with the crisp apple soda

Garnish with a lemon wedge and sprig of rosemary! 

✨If you want to make an N/A version just replace the bourbon with @seedlipdrinks Spice 94 ✨

Cheers! 

#autumnsips #fallvibes #applecidercocktail #applecidermocktail #balancedliving
Nothing brings me more joy than resetting our home Nothing brings me more joy than resetting our home for a new season and Fall decor is always so cozy and charming! 🍁🍄‍🟫 Most of what you see is from years past but I did add a few new finds to my Autumn home decor collection (like this cuuute acorn basket) 

The floating candles were originally for my Hogwarts Happy Hour party that I hosted a couple years ago, and even though they may feel a bit “Halloween” I kind of love the ambience they give in the evenings ✨

Comment “HOME” to get a link with everything you see here 

Have you decorated for Fall yet or are you clinging onto the final days of summer? 

#fallvibes #pinterestaesthetic #fallaesthetic #falldecor #autumnfinds #falliscoming #romanticizelife #smalljoys
For all my fall loving girlies, I’ve created the For all my fall loving girlies, I’ve created the ultimate 𝐂𝐎𝐙𝐘 𝐅𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐑𝐓𝐄𝐑 𝐊𝐈𝐓, filled with all kinds of inspiration and ideas to make the most of the season ahead 🍁🍂

Swipe through to find: 

✨ Autumn affirmation & journal prompt 
✨ Summer to Fall outfit breakdown 
✨ Cozy Fall Haul with pieces I’m eyeing 
✨ Nail inspo with 2025 color trends 
✨ Autumn bucket list 
✨ Cozy hobby ideas 
✨ Apple cider cocktail recipe 
✨ Fall party ideas to host for friends
✨ Autumn movie night bingo 

𝐀𝐧𝐧𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐳𝐲 𝐟𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐚𝐮𝐥 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 “𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐮𝐦𝐧” 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐈’𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐤! 🍎

I’ll be sharing lots of cozy routines, hobbies, crafts and recipes throughout September so I hope you stick around to celebrate the seasonal transition with me ☺️

#autumnmood #falliscoming #fallvibes #romanticizeyourlife #fallmood #fallinspiration #autumnmoodboard #fallingforfall
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