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How to Start a Consistent Journaling Practice for Self Care

March 31, 2021 By Melanie No Comments

How to start a consistent journaling practice for self care

I know this may seem a bit extra, but I’ve been journaling since I was in 2nd grade. My closet here in NYC holds a stack of diaries that hold my thoughts, photos, precious momentos and items from various years throughout the past two decades and it’s something that I treasure dearly.

As someone who knows the value of capturing your thoughts on paper, I’m really excited to kick off a 30 Day Journaling Challenge for my private Facebook Group members. Each day KellyAnne and I will be sharing a new prompt to encourage you to sit down and take a few moments for self reflection.

To get us all in the right mindset, KellyAnne is sharing a few ways she cultivated a consistent journaling practice as an adult. I hope you all find this helpful and that it encourages you to get out a notebook and record your thoughts, dreams, memories and everything in between.

This post was written by H&H Marketing Assistant, KellyAnne Tang.

As a kid, I always wanted to keep a diary and I obsessively collected notebooks. Shout out to anyone else who owned an invisible ink diary! But no matter how impressive my notebook collection became, each one had roughly one page filled out. I could never get the habit to stick. 

In recent years, I finally found a few practices that really clicked, and now journaling is one of my favorite ways to practice self care!  It’s something that I come back to again and again to revisit cherished memories and past selves, sort out my messy feelings, and take a little time to listen to myself. 

Like any new habit, a journaling practice can be difficult to start, but I’ve learned that it’s all about tailoring your practice to fit into your day and suit your personal goals. The possibilities are endless, but here are some ideas to help you get started! 

Check in with yourself daily

One of the simplest ways to start is to just sit down for a couple minutes each day and ask yourself how you’re doing. You don’t have to write a lot, just jot down anything that comes up for you. This is a great way to acknowledge how you’re feeling, both physically and mentally, and bring awareness to things that you might not have noticed otherwise. It’s also a good gateway habit that will help you build consistency. Make it as easy as possible by doing this check in at the same time everyday and only committing to two minutes to start. You can always keep writing if you feel like it, but tiny habits are easier to establish. 

Practice gratitude

Write down five things you’re grateful for, big or small. If you can, take some extra time to really think about each thing and feel your appreciation. Practicing gratitude will help you re-focus on the abundance in your life and has been shown to have other health benefits such as reducing stress, improving sleep, and reducing depression symptoms. 

Collect happy thoughts

In high school, I started a happy thoughts journal that I’ve kept on-and-off over the years, and it’s probably now one of my most treasured possessions. It’s similar to a gratitude journal, but you can just write down anything that brought you joy throughout the day. Try to be as specific as possible. We rarely need any help dwelling on negative parts of our day, but this practice will help you reflect on the good parts instead. I like to write the date each day and number my happy thoughts, so that it acts as a simple diary as well. I love to open to a random page and read what was making me happy that day in my life. As of today, I’ve collected over 3800 happy thoughts that span over a decade of my life! 

Start your day with morning pages

I first learned about morning pages while reading Julia Cameron’s The Artist’s Way about a year ago, and it’s one of the most consistent habits I’ve ever been able to keep. The idea is to start each day by filling three pages with stream-of-consciousness writing to unload your thoughts, worries, annoyances, dreams, whatever is buzzing around your head. I find this extremely helpful as someone whose mind always feels a little too busy. When you finish your three pages, resist the temptation to read them and put your notebook away until it’s time to write three more pages the next morning. In the year that I’ve been writing morning pages, I’ve noticed that it helps me go into my day with more mental space and a better understanding of my feelings. 

Use prompts

Sometimes a blank page is a little daunting, so if you’d like some guidance, try using prompts to get you started. You can find journal prompts online for pretty much any mood or any theme that you’re interested in exploring.

Stay organized with bullet journaling

I know bullet journaling can seem a little intimidating when you see the artistic masterpieces all over social media, but you can keep it simple! Bullet journaling is a great tool to help you stay organized, track progress on your goals, keep you accountable, and collect memories. Here some examples of how I use my bullet journal:

  • Record favorite songs/movies/books/artists of the month
  • Write out my morning/evening routines
  • Brainstorm new ideas for a specific project
  • Plan weekly meals and grocery list
  • Write down things I’m curious about
  • Track my water intake, habits, time, and energy levels
  • Log expenses and income
  • Keep track of interesting journal prompts

The most important thing about bullet journaling is to customize it with layouts that are most helpful for you! And if you’re looking for a creative outlet, you can definitely lean into the artistic aspect of it! Here are more ideas for bullet journal layouts and be sure to check out Amanda Rach Lee’s YouTube channel for endless inspiration! 

Get creative with art journaling

If you prefer to express yourself more visually, art journaling is a great alternative! This is your journal, so you have total creative freedom. You could make collages with souvenirs from your life, draw five highlights of your day, illustrate the song that’s stuck in your head, or scribble with crayons. You can check out the Art Journal Community Instagram page for some examples and here’s a list of 57 art journaling prompts to get your creative juices flowing!

Treat yourself to a journal that you love

I am always way more likely to stick with something if I get to use fun supplies. Pick out a journal that is going to make you smile and feel excited to do your daily practice. We have the perfect blog post right here to help you find the prettiest journals!

Whether you’re looking to process your feelings, express yourself, or stay organized, there’s a journaling practice for you! There’s no wrong or right way; all that matters is that you find a practice that you find nourishing. Happy journaling!

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Welcome to my “Cozy Corner” 🧡 a new series
Welcome to my “Cozy Corner” 🧡 a new series where I’ll share some of my favorite things each month that can help you slow down and savor the season

I have so many things I want to chat with you all about and can’t wait to dive into more of these! You can expect lots of cozy hobby ideas, self care tips, book recommendations, gift guides, fitness/wellness favs, recipes I’m loving, and more — just let me know if you have any requests! 

I’m kicking things off with 3 of my favorite fall crafts that I’ve been loving for both solo cozy nights in or for hosting friends ✨. You can find tutorials and video examples of all three in my recent reels

I hope you guys enjoy our cozy chat 💬 

#cozyhobbies #cozycrafts #fallgirl #selfcaretips #comfortcreator #wellbeing #wellnessjourney #softwellness #hobbiesareimportant #romanticizeyourlife #cozycorner #joyfulliving

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You all know I love a mindful morning routine, but in this season of life, cozy evening rituals have been everything for me ✨💕

If you’re looking for quick and simple ways to add a little more hygge into your evenings, these are some of my personal favorites to: 

Restore your Body
✨just a few minutes of intentional movement or nourishing self care can help your body relax, unwind and prepare for a good night’s sleep 

Clear your Mind
✨ stop the scroll and opt for more positive ways to reduce the mental clutter. Taking a few minutes to reflect and reset your thoughts can help you fall asleep with a clear mind 

Soothe your Soul
✨the quiet moments of the evening provide the perfect opportunity to choose activities that make you happy. Whether it’s reading a book, trying a new cozy hobby or even as simple as stepping outside to look at the moon & stars… choose to end your day with warmth and ease 

If you’d like to receive my free printable Autumn Reflections guided journal, just comment JOURNAL and I’ll send it straight to your inbox. It’s the perfect thing to add to your cozy evening (or morning) routine 🧡

#mindfulmoments #cozyvibes #cozyseason #joyfulliving #happyandhealthy #hygge #intentionalliving #cozyrituals #healthyliving

Move over PSL because this viral iced salted maple
Move over PSL because this viral iced salted maple latte is the new “it girl” of fall drinks! 🍁 All you need are 4 ingredients to whip this up at home 

Recipe:

✨ 1-2 tsp Trader Joe’s maple butter 
✨ pinch of salt
✨ 2 shots espresso 
✨ milk of choice 

Let me know if you’ll be trying this! 🧡 

#fallvibes #fallgirl #fallrecipe #coffeeathome #morningsips #coffeemorning #maplelatte #softgirlera #comfortcreator #cozyseason #cozyathome #pinterestaesthetıc #cozyvibesonly

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Just comment “bookmark” and I’ll send you everything you need to make this yourself! Or send this to someone you want to have a cozy craft day with ☺️

#fallvibes #fallcrafts #cozyhobbies #cozyseason #hobbiesareselfcare #romanticizeyourlife #fallgirl #craftinspo #girlswhoread #bookstagram

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You all know how much I love hosting and this snack station is sooo perfect for an outdoor movie date night or girl’s craft + movie night with friends! I loaded up the table with popcorn, apple cinnamon muffins, apple cider and justin’s NEW Peanut Caramel Nougat Chocolate Mini Candy Bars

JUSTIN’S® Peanut Caramel Nougat Chocolate Candy Bars are USDA-certified organic, gluten-free do not contain stevia or sugar alcohols– and most importantly, they taste amazing! They come in both 1.4oz single-size bars or the mini-size bars that you see here! 

Be sure to stock up on these for your next cozy Fall gathering or Halloween party! 🎃 

#autumnvibes #fallgirl #autumnparty #cozygathering #cozysnacks #outdoormovie #movienightathome #fallhardwithjustins #JUSTINScandybars

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Wait till the end to see how our lil pumpkins turned out and send this to someone you want to do this with! 

#romanticizeyourlife #cozyseason #outdoormovienight #fallvibes #fallactivities #cozycrafts #girlsnightin

✨Cozy season = hosting season✨ and I’ve got
✨Cozy season = hosting season✨ and I’ve got you covered with 5 super cozy, creative & cute fall gatherings to bring your friends or family together! 

Trust me when I say you’ll want to save this for later or send to a friend who you want to do one of these with! 🎃

🧡PUMPKINS & PSLS: combine cozy home cafe vibes with an autumnal crafternoon 

🧡COOKBOOK CLUB POTLUCK: pick a cozy, seasonal themed cookbook and have all your friends pick a dish to make, bring & share! 

🧡 GILMORE GIRLS NIGHT IN: set up a spread from “Luke’s Diner” and spend an evening watching some of the best fall episodes (I’ve listed a ton in my Autumn watch list post) 

🧡SPIRITS & SPELLS SOIRÉE: get your coven together for a witchy cocktail party complete with dark candlelight and potion inspired sips 

🧡 MYSTERY BOOK CLUB: pick a fall friendly mystery, serve mulled wine and get together to discuss all the plot twists and theories 

Let me know if you’ll be hosting any of these and if you want to see a similar roundup for the holiday season in November!

#fallgirl #autumnparty #hostingideas #girlsnightideas #fallparty #cozyseason #cozyvibes #fall2025

The sweetest apple picking adventure to celebrate
The sweetest apple picking adventure to celebrate Lily’s first time in the northeast 🍎💕

#autumnvibes #fallactivities #applepicking #fallgirl #autumnaesthetic #falltrip #pinterestaesthetic

#ad Give me more sweet and cozy autumn mornings li
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🍁Wearing comfy, cute loungewear 
🍁Sipping an iced maple latte by the fire 
🍁Making a yummy pre-workout breakfast featuring my favorite pumpkin @noosayoghurt. It’s made with whole milk, tastes incredible and has the most smooth, velvety texture
🍁Fitting in a quick pilates workout 

The best part about romanticizing the little things is that the most basic routine somehow feels just a little more special. And I think we all deserve to start the day with feel-good rituals that we can lean into and fully appreciate, don’t you? 🤎

#cozyseason #autumnvibes #fallgirl #morningroutine #morningrituals #cozymornings #happyhabits


Now presenting your ultimate Autumn Watch List!! ✨🍿 🎥 

Get the popcorn + your fav snacks ready because this roundup has ALL the best cozy movies, shows and even fall specific episodes of your classic favorites (hands up if you love Gilmore Girls, Friends and Gossip Girl! 🙋🏻‍♀️) 

Swipe through, SAVE to reference later and share with someone who you think would love a cozy movie night in! 🧡

I hope you all find this roundup helpful and that it inspires many cozy evenings this season 🍂 

#autumnmovies #fallvibes #fallgirl #fallbucketlist #cozyseason #cozyselfcare #cozymovienight #movienightathome #tisautumn #feelslikefall

Got everything on my wish list right here 🍂🍁
Got everything on my wish list right here 🍂🍁🤎 

📍 Evergreen, CO | 📸 @hnguyenphoto 

#fallaesthetic #fallincolorado #familyphotoshoot #pinterestaesthetic #fallorado #leafpeeping #autumndays #babysfirstfall #newparentslife


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Welcome to my “Cozy Corner” 🧡 a new series Welcome to my “Cozy Corner” 🧡 a new series where I’ll share some of my favorite things each month that can help you slow down and savor the season

I have so many things I want to chat with you all about and can’t wait to dive into more of these! You can expect lots of cozy hobby ideas, self care tips, book recommendations, gift guides, fitness/wellness favs, recipes I’m loving, and more — just let me know if you have any requests! 

I’m kicking things off with 3 of my favorite fall crafts that I’ve been loving for both solo cozy nights in or for hosting friends ✨. You can find tutorials and video examples of all three in my recent reels

I hope you guys enjoy our cozy chat 💬 

#cozyhobbies #cozycrafts #fallgirl #selfcaretips #comfortcreator #wellbeing #wellnessjourney #softwellness #hobbiesareimportant #romanticizeyourlife #cozycorner #joyfulliving
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If you’re looking for quick and simple ways to add a little more hygge into your evenings, these are some of my personal favorites to: 

Restore your Body
✨just a few minutes of intentional movement or nourishing self care can help your body relax, unwind and prepare for a good night’s sleep 

Clear your Mind
✨ stop the scroll and opt for more positive ways to reduce the mental clutter. Taking a few minutes to reflect and reset your thoughts can help you fall asleep with a clear mind 

Soothe your Soul
✨the quiet moments of the evening provide the perfect opportunity to choose activities that make you happy. Whether it’s reading a book, trying a new cozy hobby or even as simple as stepping outside to look at the moon & stars… choose to end your day with warmth and ease 

If you’d like to receive my free printable Autumn Reflections guided journal, just comment JOURNAL and I’ll send it straight to your inbox. It’s the perfect thing to add to your cozy evening (or morning) routine 🧡

#mindfulmoments #cozyvibes #cozyseason #joyfulliving #happyandhealthy #hygge #intentionalliving #cozyrituals #healthyliving
Move over PSL because this viral iced salted maple Move over PSL because this viral iced salted maple latte is the new “it girl” of fall drinks! 🍁 All you need are 4 ingredients to whip this up at home 

Recipe:

✨ 1-2 tsp Trader Joe’s maple butter 
✨ pinch of salt
✨ 2 shots espresso 
✨ milk of choice 

Let me know if you’ll be trying this! 🧡 

#fallvibes #fallgirl #fallrecipe #coffeeathome #morningsips #coffeemorning #maplelatte #softgirlera #comfortcreator #cozyseason #cozyathome #pinterestaesthetıc #cozyvibesonly
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This autumn leaf bookmark is still one of my favor This autumn leaf bookmark is still one of my favorite cozy fall crafts! It’s so cute and simple to make — perfect for a crafternoon with the girls or as a bookclub activity 📖🧡🍁

Just comment “bookmark” and I’ll send you everything you need to make this yourself! Or send this to someone you want to have a cozy craft day with ☺️

#fallvibes #fallcrafts #cozyhobbies #cozyseason #hobbiesareselfcare #romanticizeyourlife #fallgirl #craftinspo #girlswhoread #bookstagram
#JUSTINSbrandpartner 🍁 Send this to someone you #JUSTINSbrandpartner 🍁 Send this to someone you want to have a snack-filled cozy, outdoor movie night with! 

You all know how much I love hosting and this snack station is sooo perfect for an outdoor movie date night or girl’s craft + movie night with friends! I loaded up the table with popcorn, apple cinnamon muffins, apple cider and justin’s NEW Peanut Caramel Nougat Chocolate Mini Candy Bars

JUSTIN’S® Peanut Caramel Nougat Chocolate Candy Bars are USDA-certified organic, gluten-free do not contain stevia or sugar alcohols– and most importantly, they taste amazing! They come in both 1.4oz single-size bars or the mini-size bars that you see here! 

Be sure to stock up on these for your next cozy Fall gathering or Halloween party! 🎃 

#autumnvibes #fallgirl #autumnparty #cozygathering #cozysnacks #outdoormovie #movienightathome #fallhardwithjustins #JUSTINScandybars
Hocus Pocus + pumpkin painting may just be the mos Hocus Pocus + pumpkin painting may just be the most wholesome girl’s night in combo 🧡

Wait till the end to see how our lil pumpkins turned out and send this to someone you want to do this with! 

#romanticizeyourlife #cozyseason #outdoormovienight #fallvibes #fallactivities #cozycrafts #girlsnightin
✨Cozy season = hosting season✨ and I’ve got ✨Cozy season = hosting season✨ and I’ve got you covered with 5 super cozy, creative & cute fall gatherings to bring your friends or family together! 

Trust me when I say you’ll want to save this for later or send to a friend who you want to do one of these with! 🎃

🧡PUMPKINS & PSLS: combine cozy home cafe vibes with an autumnal crafternoon 

🧡COOKBOOK CLUB POTLUCK: pick a cozy, seasonal themed cookbook and have all your friends pick a dish to make, bring & share! 

🧡 GILMORE GIRLS NIGHT IN: set up a spread from “Luke’s Diner” and spend an evening watching some of the best fall episodes (I’ve listed a ton in my Autumn watch list post) 

🧡SPIRITS & SPELLS SOIRÉE: get your coven together for a witchy cocktail party complete with dark candlelight and potion inspired sips 

🧡 MYSTERY BOOK CLUB: pick a fall friendly mystery, serve mulled wine and get together to discuss all the plot twists and theories 

Let me know if you’ll be hosting any of these and if you want to see a similar roundup for the holiday season in November!

#fallgirl #autumnparty #hostingideas #girlsnightideas #fallparty #cozyseason #cozyvibes #fall2025
The sweetest apple picking adventure to celebrate The sweetest apple picking adventure to celebrate Lily’s first time in the northeast 🍎💕

#autumnvibes #fallactivities #applepicking #fallgirl #autumnaesthetic #falltrip #pinterestaesthetic
#ad Give me more sweet and cozy autumn mornings li #ad Give me more sweet and cozy autumn mornings like this… 

🍁Wearing comfy, cute loungewear 
🍁Sipping an iced maple latte by the fire 
🍁Making a yummy pre-workout breakfast featuring my favorite pumpkin @noosayoghurt. It’s made with whole milk, tastes incredible and has the most smooth, velvety texture
🍁Fitting in a quick pilates workout 

The best part about romanticizing the little things is that the most basic routine somehow feels just a little more special. And I think we all deserve to start the day with feel-good rituals that we can lean into and fully appreciate, don’t you? 🤎

#cozyseason #autumnvibes #fallgirl #morningroutine #morningrituals #cozymornings #happyhabits
Now presenting your ultimate Autumn Watch List!! ✨🍿 🎥 

Get the popcorn + your fav snacks ready because this roundup has ALL the best cozy movies, shows and even fall specific episodes of your classic favorites (hands up if you love Gilmore Girls, Friends and Gossip Girl! 🙋🏻‍♀️) 

Swipe through, SAVE to reference later and share with someone who you think would love a cozy movie night in! 🧡

I hope you all find this roundup helpful and that it inspires many cozy evenings this season 🍂 

#autumnmovies #fallvibes #fallgirl #fallbucketlist #cozyseason #cozyselfcare #cozymovienight #movienightathome #tisautumn #feelslikefall
Got everything on my wish list right here 🍂🍁 Got everything on my wish list right here 🍂🍁🤎 

📍 Evergreen, CO | 📸 @hnguyenphoto 

#fallaesthetic #fallincolorado #familyphotoshoot #pinterestaesthetic #fallorado #leafpeeping #autumndays #babysfirstfall #newparentslife
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