Autumn is officially here and with it welcomes a season of all things cozy. As we start to transition out of the wild summer months and into a time of year that brings shorter days, cool weather and more time spent at home with loved ones — this is a great opportunity to add a little more self care into our routines. Making the art of “hygge” (cozy wellbeing) and self care a priority right now can be especially helpful, since Fall is a precursor to the hectic holiday season.
Although the online version of self care has become somewhat synonymous with long baths, expensive skin care routines and wellness retreats, it really doesn’t have to be expensive or complicated. There are so many beautiful ways to prioritize your wellbeing that won’t break the bank or require you to block off too much time out of your schedule.
At the end of the day, practicing self care should be accessible and something that makes you feel better. Whether it’s emotional, physical or spiritual, the type of care you choose to provide yourself can change based on what you need most or the time you have alloted for yourself at any given point of the day.
In case you’re at a loss of where to get started, I’ve compiled a list of 100 different ways to practice self care below. So grab a cup of coffee, cozy up with a blanket and grab a pen and paper to write out whichever ones speak most to you right now. I hope you find this to be a helpful resource for any time when you need to take a pause and spend a moment to yourself.
- Wake up early and watch the sunrise
- Read a new book
- Light your favorite candle
- Get up and move your body (here are 30 ways to add more movement into your day)
- Bake your favorite decadent dessert
- Apply a face mask
- Color in a coloring book
- Try a 15 min meditation
- Go to a yoga class
- Rewatch your favorite movie or tv show
- Get extra cozy with soft loungewear and a blanket
- Buy yourself some flowers
- Cuddle with your pet
- Spend some alone time doing whatever you want
- Go to a museum
- Give yourself permission to sleep in
- Turn off social media for a day or weekend
- Close your eyes and take 3 deep breaths
- Listen to a fun or informative podcast or audiobook.
- Make your bed
- Create a fun coffee drink at home
- Write a list of what you’re grateful for
- Spend 5 minutes journaling before bed (20 journal prompts for self love)
- Turn off your phone at 9pm
- Take yourself on a solo date
- Call or Facetime your friends
- Sing loudly in the car or shower
- Dance in the rain
- Eat nourishing meals all day
- Add some essential oils into a diffuser
- Look through old photographs and photo albums
- Create a new playlist of songs that you love
- Paint a picture or get crafty
- Declutter a space in your home
- Reorganize your closet and donate old clothes
- Have a picnic in a park
- Go on a nature walk or hike
- Watch the sunset
- Get extra dressed up and go somewhere special
- Plan a girl’s night out
- Spend extra time on your skincare routine
- Book yourself a massage
- Go to church or a place of worship
- Walk barefoot in the grass
- Allow yourself to say “no”
- Water your plants and wipe their leaves
- Ride a bike or rollerskate
- Unsubscribe to email lists that you don’t enjoy
- Drink more water
- Do something spontaneous
- Give up multitasking for a week and let yourself focus on only one thing at a time.
- Give yourself an unscheduled block of time, or even a whole day!
- Go to a group fitness class or a group run/walk
- Make plans to do that fun thing you’ve been meaning to do
- Buy yourself a small present that brings you joy
- Read old cards and messages from loved ones
- Celebrate something good in your life lately, no matter how small
- Surprise a friend with a gift or a thoughtful gesture
- Make plans to meet up with someone who always leaves you feeling energized and uplifted
- Reorganize a small space in your home that tends to collect clutter
- Take care of 5 small tasks that have been nagging you for a while
- Stretch for 20 minutes
- Take a personal day off of work
- Make that doctor’s or dentist’s appointment that you’ve been putting off
- Find a way to track your physical and mental health in a way that works for you
- Go to the farmers market and cook yourself a healthy meal with your market haul
- Take 10 minutes to write down your dreams for the future
- Take one small step towards one of those dreams
- Take a true lunch break
- Wash your sheets and your towels
- Check in with your finances and your savings goals
- Make something about your daily life easier
- Throw out expired beauty and skincare products
- Cook your favorite childhood meal
- Spend time meal prepping to make your week easier
- Use an alarm clock so you can charge your phone in a separate room
- Say something nice to yourself
- Give yourself a scalp massage in the shower
- Take a class or a workshop in something that interests you
- Change the backgrounds on your devices to images that inspire or calm you
- Repeat a positive affirmation to yourself (here are 10 for stress relief)
- Eat your meals without any distractions for a day
- Have a digital detox weekend
- Visit a library or a bookstore and browse the shelves
- Make your mornings easier by prepping everything the night before
- Turn off work notifications during off-hours if you can
- Say “thank you” to others and yourself
- Take a luxurious bath
- Take a deep breath in and then release any tension you’re holding in your body as you breathe out
- Check in with yourself before jumping into the day
- Listen to nature sounds
- Set up a cozy nook in your home
- Take something off of your to-do list that doesn’t need to be there
- Ask your friends and family for help when you need it
- Do a fun DIY home decor project
- Have a good cry if you need one
- Unfollow or mute social media accounts that don’t make you feel good
- Do a random act of kindness (like these 50 ideas)
- Drink a cup of herbal tea before bed
- Take time to foam roll after a workout
I challenge you to pick at least 10 of these self care items and commit to doing them at least once a week during this upcoming season. I hope these activities bring you a little more joy and help to cultivate a feeling of gratitude for all that you’re capable of.
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