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20 Journal Prompts for Self Love

August 11, 2021 By Melanie No Comments

If you look in my closet you’d find a small box with a stack of old journals in them. These notebooks carry so many pieces of my heart and memories that date as far back as 2nd grade. I’ve always been a visual person and writing is one of my favorite forms of self care. In fact, that’s why I even decided to start a blog in the first place — because writing came easy to me and was something I genuinely enjoyed doing.

As so many of us start to experience in our adult lives, we tend to make less and less time for the things that once brought us simple joys. I haven’t been very consistent with journaling as of late but it’s something I want to get back to and I know that prompts are a great way to start.

If you’re in the same boat and want to use writing prompts to get the creative juices flowing, these are for you! And if you’re looking to nurture your journaling habit in the first place, be sure to check out my blog post on “How to start a consistent journaling practice.”

Since self love is something I think we can all use a little more of, here are 20 prompts for you to ponder and write about:

1.  I feel my best when…

2.  What do you need today? What is one small thing you can do to support yourself?

3.  Write an encouraging letter to yourself from your 80-year old self.

4.  What is an unrealistic or unnecessary expectation you have for yourself that you can let go?

5.  List 10 things that you are grateful for about yourself.

6.  Describe a time when you felt truly joyful. What is something you can do today to connect with that part of yourself?

7.  How would your life be different if you acknowledged your self worth?

8.  I feel loved when…

9.  Describe a time when you felt like giving up but something or someone inspired you to keep going and get through a tough time or accomplish a goal. How can you be that person for yourself?

10.  What are some areas in your life where you could be more true to yourself?

11.  How would your loved ones describe you?

12.  Write about a time when you surprised yourself with your own abilities or perseverance.

13.  What are 10 things that you love about your body?

14.  What is a dream that you have that you’ve been waiting to pursue until “the right time?” What are three small steps you can take in the direction of that dream right now?

15.  Write out some of the self-limiting beliefs you hold about yourself or your future. How can you release those beliefs by reframing them into positive affirmations? It might help to think about how you would talk to a friend.

16.  Write yourself a thank you note for everything you do for yourself and for others.

17.  What is something about your current life that your past self dreamed of?

18.  Describe a person who really believes in you and what beliefs they have about you.

19.  What inspires you and makes you feel alive?

20.  What were your small wins (or big ones!) today?

If you’re in need of a new journal, I’ve got you covered with lots of cute notebooks to choose from.

I hope you find these prompts helpful as you continue your journaling practice!

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If you’d like to receive my free printable Autumn Reflections guided journal, just comment JOURNAL and I’ll send it straight to your inbox. It’s the perfect thing to add to your cozy evening (or morning) routine 🧡

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✨ 1-2 tsp Trader Joe’s maple butter 
✨ pinch of salt
✨ 2 shots espresso 
✨ milk of choice 

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The best part about romanticizing the little things is that the most basic routine somehow feels just a little more special. And I think we all deserve to start the day with feel-good rituals that we can lean into and fully appreciate, don’t you? 🤎

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Swipe through, SAVE to reference later and share with someone who you think would love a cozy movie night in! 🧡

I hope you all find this roundup helpful and that it inspires many cozy evenings this season 🍂 

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#romanticizeyourlife #morningroutine #fallmorning #fallvibes #softwellness #softgirlera #wellbeingritual #mindfulmoments #smalljoys #selfcareislove
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I’m kicking things off with 3 of my favorite fall crafts that I’ve been loving for both solo cozy nights in or for hosting friends ✨. You can find tutorials and video examples of all three in my recent reels

I hope you guys enjoy our cozy chat 💬 

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Restore your Body
✨just a few minutes of intentional movement or nourishing self care can help your body relax, unwind and prepare for a good night’s sleep 

Clear your Mind
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Soothe your Soul
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If you’d like to receive my free printable Autumn Reflections guided journal, just comment JOURNAL and I’ll send it straight to your inbox. It’s the perfect thing to add to your cozy evening (or morning) routine 🧡

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Recipe:

✨ 1-2 tsp Trader Joe’s maple butter 
✨ pinch of salt
✨ 2 shots espresso 
✨ milk of choice 

Let me know if you’ll be trying this! 🧡 

#fallvibes #fallgirl #fallrecipe #coffeeathome #morningsips #coffeemorning #maplelatte #softgirlera #comfortcreator #cozyseason #cozyathome #pinterestaesthetıc #cozyvibesonly
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Just comment “bookmark” and I’ll send you everything you need to make this yourself! Or send this to someone you want to have a cozy craft day with ☺️

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JUSTIN’S® Peanut Caramel Nougat Chocolate Candy Bars are USDA-certified organic, gluten-free do not contain stevia or sugar alcohols– and most importantly, they taste amazing! They come in both 1.4oz single-size bars or the mini-size bars that you see here! 

Be sure to stock up on these for your next cozy Fall gathering or Halloween party! 🎃 

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Wait till the end to see how our lil pumpkins turned out and send this to someone you want to do this with! 

#romanticizeyourlife #cozyseason #outdoormovienight #fallvibes #fallactivities #cozycrafts #girlsnightin
✨Cozy season = hosting season✨ and I’ve got ✨Cozy season = hosting season✨ and I’ve got you covered with 5 super cozy, creative & cute fall gatherings to bring your friends or family together! 

Trust me when I say you’ll want to save this for later or send to a friend who you want to do one of these with! 🎃

🧡PUMPKINS & PSLS: combine cozy home cafe vibes with an autumnal crafternoon 

🧡COOKBOOK CLUB POTLUCK: pick a cozy, seasonal themed cookbook and have all your friends pick a dish to make, bring & share! 

🧡 GILMORE GIRLS NIGHT IN: set up a spread from “Luke’s Diner” and spend an evening watching some of the best fall episodes (I’ve listed a ton in my Autumn watch list post) 

🧡SPIRITS & SPELLS SOIRÉE: get your coven together for a witchy cocktail party complete with dark candlelight and potion inspired sips 

🧡 MYSTERY BOOK CLUB: pick a fall friendly mystery, serve mulled wine and get together to discuss all the plot twists and theories 

Let me know if you’ll be hosting any of these and if you want to see a similar roundup for the holiday season in November!

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#ad Give me more sweet and cozy autumn mornings li #ad Give me more sweet and cozy autumn mornings like this… 

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🍁Sipping an iced maple latte by the fire 
🍁Making a yummy pre-workout breakfast featuring my favorite pumpkin @noosayoghurt. It’s made with whole milk, tastes incredible and has the most smooth, velvety texture
🍁Fitting in a quick pilates workout 

The best part about romanticizing the little things is that the most basic routine somehow feels just a little more special. And I think we all deserve to start the day with feel-good rituals that we can lean into and fully appreciate, don’t you? 🤎

#cozyseason #autumnvibes #fallgirl #morningroutine #morningrituals #cozymornings #happyhabits
Now presenting your ultimate Autumn Watch List!! ✨🍿 🎥 

Get the popcorn + your fav snacks ready because this roundup has ALL the best cozy movies, shows and even fall specific episodes of your classic favorites (hands up if you love Gilmore Girls, Friends and Gossip Girl! 🙋🏻‍♀️) 

Swipe through, SAVE to reference later and share with someone who you think would love a cozy movie night in! 🧡

I hope you all find this roundup helpful and that it inspires many cozy evenings this season 🍂 

#autumnmovies #fallvibes #fallgirl #fallbucketlist #cozyseason #cozyselfcare #cozymovienight #movienightathome #tisautumn #feelslikefall
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