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Progress Not Perfection

April 11, 2016 By Melanie 1 Comment

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Hello lovelies! Today’s #MondayMotivation is all about striving for progress, not perfection, in your yoga practice. In this very Instagram era, I struggle with posting photos on my feed that don’t “measure up” to a particular standard. I especially scrutinize my yoga images – picking apart each little flaw in form, criticizing myself for not pointing my toes or tightening my core, etc. It’s so easy to get caught up in the aspired end result, that there are times when I feel I miss out on the whole point of my practice all together… and in case you’re feeling the same way, here’s a friendly reminder:

Yoga is a journey. 

It’s a constant work in progress and it takes multiple failures to produce a singular success. 

Today I put my ego aside and said screw it, I’m totally going to step out of my comfort zone and practice yoga poses that I don’t normally try.  And I’ll admit – I fell down. A lot. Like there will be a welt the size of King Kong on my bottom and a nice black-n-blue bruise on my forearm tomorrow.

But guess what? I’ve never felt happier. I’ve realized that I’ve become so stagnant in my practice… doing the same old poses over and over again. As much as consistency is a good thing, it can also be a huge hindrance when it comes to bettering yourself. My boyfriend has even said once before while taking my photos “After watching you do crow pose a billion times, it gets a little boring.” Um, #truthhurts. 🙉 🙈

I’m making it a goal of mine to branch out and try at least one new flow or asana during each yoga sesh moving forward. During today’s practice, I tried the following:

One-Legged Crow Pose 

This has always been one of those poses that I would look at and then promptly shake my head and laugh it off, thinking there was NO way I was strong enough to do it. After a good warm up, I attempted this pose for the first time ever… and promptly fell flat on my face. The good thing is, I tried it five more times. And by the 3rd time, I was actually able to lift my bended left leg off my knee and hold it long enough for several photos! SUCCESS! Next step? Eventually become stable enough in this asana to straighten the lifted leg and hold for several breaths.

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Hollowback Forearmstand 

So I love me some pincha (forearmstand), particularly the scorpion variation, and have recently become so comfortable in it that it’s one of my go-to asanas during any yoga photoshoot. Today I decided to take it to the next level and attempt a hollowback variation (in which you lower your head so your ears are in line with your forearms while also bringing your bottom past your head). Well, I got as far as the first part, which is more than I thought I could do, but unfortunately wasn’t able to hold for more than a few seconds before tumbling down. Even still, I’m excited to have made a little progress in my pincha mayursana and look forward to seeing where continued practice takes me.

hollowback

Wide Arm Headstand

Headstands have always made me slightly nervous but in the past year I’ve gained much more confidence in traditional and tripod headstands (you can read my tips for tripod headstand here). I had attempted a wide arm variation once before a couple years ago when I had a nice blanket of sand at the beach to cushion my fall. I decided to attempt it again today, but couldn’t get find any kind of stability. I did manage to hold it for a few breaths when I kept my arms bent instead of straight, so for today that’ll have to do. 😊

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We can all find ourselves stuck in a rut and remain safely behind the sturdy doors of our comfort zone. However, it’s so important to learn to face your fears and try something new every once in a while or you’ll never discover your true potential! Before you write something off, whether it be a new yoga pose or a new experience, ask yourself why you’re afraid to try it. Find courage and don’t let doubts cloud your judgement. After all, YOU are capable of extraordinary things.

 

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  1. Rita Herrick says

    April 15, 2016 at 1:04 am

    I love what you are doing here and I am so proud of you! You are doing some fantastic poses!!! Love you!

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✨ sift 1 tsp ceremonial grade matcha powder to remove clumps 
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✨ Using bamboo whisk, whisk vigorously in a W shape until microfoam forms 

For the blueberry portion, muddle fresh blueberries with blueberry syrup (or make a homemade blueberry syrup by heating blueberries with sugar, lemon juice and water over the stove)

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When you ✨grow✨ you can’t help but create a When you ✨grow✨ you can’t help but create a beautiful life 

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When you let your mood dictate what you do, you’ When you let your mood dictate what you do, you’ll never be able to stay consistent with your goals… especially when it comes to your overall wellbeing. Completing that very first task always starts a chain reaction — it’s getting started that’s the hardest part 💕

If you’re ready to start building a #morningroutine filled with #healthyhabits, comment WORKSHEET and I’ll send you my free printable Mindful Morning template to help you get started ☀️🙌🏻

#healthylifestyle #iamwellandgood #mindfulroutines #healthyandhappy #wellnessgirl #selfcarequeen
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June is my FAV month of the year and this was such a sweet way to kick off the summer season ☀️. I’ve always loved hosting and having an excuse to create magical moments for my baby girl adds an extra layer of joy to it all

Tbh we had a rough week last week so having all the mama friends together and seeing them with their little ones was just what I needed to lift my spirits ☺️💕

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Building a stack of habits that change the way you feel mentally, emotionally, and physically for the better is one of the best things you can do for yourself 🥰

If you need some tips on how to get started, here are 5 habits to add to your repertoire:

1️⃣ Schedule alone time: carving out time alone is essential for your wellbeing (even if you’re an extrovert like me). Find ways to make your time feel more special like taking yourself on a solo date 

2️⃣ Clean your space: a clear space = a clear mind, and one of my favorite ways to do this is to allot 30 min each evening for a “closing shift” where you do dishes, tidy up and prep your space so that you can wake up to a clean house

3️⃣ Make time for hobbies: it’s too easy to get caught up in the productivity hustle but making time for things that are just for fun can be the BEST thing for your creativity and mental wellbeing 

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5️⃣ Practice presence: the act of noticing your surroundings and fully immersing yourself in the simple moments is a life long practice. If tuning in to yourself is challenging and you find your mind wandering, try slowing down and being intentional to not multi-task and instead focus on one thing at a time 

Be sure to comment WORKSHEET below 👇🏼 if you want me to send you a copy of my free printable Mindful Morning Worksheet that can help you track your healthy habits and set goals for the week ahead 💕

#healthylifestyle #healthyliving #healthyandhappy #romanticizeyourlife #wellbeingtips #wellbeing #wellnessguide #habitsthatwork #wellnessgirl
Who else is excited for life to look like this aga Who else is excited for life to look like this again 🌸🦋☀️🍀

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