• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Wellness
  • Yoga
  • Beauty
  • GirlBossing
  • Lifestyle
  • Travel
  • About Me
  • Contact
  • Shop

Headstands and Heels

  • Wellness
  • Yoga
  • Beauty
  • GirlBossing
  • Lifestyle
  • Travel
  • About Me
  • Contact
  • Shop
IN: GirlBossing, Wellness

Progress Not Perfection

April 11, 2016 By Melanie 1 Comment

fishpose

Hello lovelies! Today’s #MondayMotivation is all about striving for progress, not perfection, in your yoga practice. In this very Instagram era, I struggle with posting photos on my feed that don’t “measure up” to a particular standard. I especially scrutinize my yoga images – picking apart each little flaw in form, criticizing myself for not pointing my toes or tightening my core, etc. It’s so easy to get caught up in the aspired end result, that there are times when I feel I miss out on the whole point of my practice all together… and in case you’re feeling the same way, here’s a friendly reminder:

Yoga is a journey. 

It’s a constant work in progress and it takes multiple failures to produce a singular success. 

Today I put my ego aside and said screw it, I’m totally going to step out of my comfort zone and practice yoga poses that I don’t normally try.  And I’ll admit – I fell down. A lot. Like there will be a welt the size of King Kong on my bottom and a nice black-n-blue bruise on my forearm tomorrow.

But guess what? I’ve never felt happier. I’ve realized that I’ve become so stagnant in my practice… doing the same old poses over and over again. As much as consistency is a good thing, it can also be a huge hindrance when it comes to bettering yourself. My boyfriend has even said once before while taking my photos “After watching you do crow pose a billion times, it gets a little boring.” Um, #truthhurts. 🙉 🙈

I’m making it a goal of mine to branch out and try at least one new flow or asana during each yoga sesh moving forward. During today’s practice, I tried the following:

One-Legged Crow Pose 

This has always been one of those poses that I would look at and then promptly shake my head and laugh it off, thinking there was NO way I was strong enough to do it. After a good warm up, I attempted this pose for the first time ever… and promptly fell flat on my face. The good thing is, I tried it five more times. And by the 3rd time, I was actually able to lift my bended left leg off my knee and hold it long enough for several photos! SUCCESS! Next step? Eventually become stable enough in this asana to straighten the lifted leg and hold for several breaths.

oneleggedcrow

Hollowback Forearmstand 

So I love me some pincha (forearmstand), particularly the scorpion variation, and have recently become so comfortable in it that it’s one of my go-to asanas during any yoga photoshoot. Today I decided to take it to the next level and attempt a hollowback variation (in which you lower your head so your ears are in line with your forearms while also bringing your bottom past your head). Well, I got as far as the first part, which is more than I thought I could do, but unfortunately wasn’t able to hold for more than a few seconds before tumbling down. Even still, I’m excited to have made a little progress in my pincha mayursana and look forward to seeing where continued practice takes me.

hollowback

Wide Arm Headstand

Headstands have always made me slightly nervous but in the past year I’ve gained much more confidence in traditional and tripod headstands (you can read my tips for tripod headstand here). I had attempted a wide arm variation once before a couple years ago when I had a nice blanket of sand at the beach to cushion my fall. I decided to attempt it again today, but couldn’t get find any kind of stability. I did manage to hold it for a few breaths when I kept my arms bent instead of straight, so for today that’ll have to do. 😊

headstand

We can all find ourselves stuck in a rut and remain safely behind the sturdy doors of our comfort zone. However, it’s so important to learn to face your fears and try something new every once in a while or you’ll never discover your true potential! Before you write something off, whether it be a new yoga pose or a new experience, ask yourself why you’re afraid to try it. Find courage and don’t let doubts cloud your judgement. After all, YOU are capable of extraordinary things.

 

hahandlips-cutout-small

Filed Under: GirlBossing, Wellness

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Rita Herrick says

    April 15, 2016 at 1:04 am

    I love what you are doing here and I am so proud of you! You are doing some fantastic poses!!! Love you!

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Primary Sidebar

Meet Melanie

Meet Melanie

Hi and welcome to Headstands & Heels! I’m Melanie — a Digital Strategist turned Wellness Entrepreneur, certified yoga instructor (RYT 200), dog mama, and content creator based in Denver. I hope to encourage others to follow their dreams and cultivate a healthy, balanced lifestyle filled with mindfulness and positivity. 💕 Send me a note at: mel@headstandsandheels.com

Connect

  • Email
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • YouTube

Find Me on Instagram


✨Cozy season = hosting season✨ and I’ve got
✨Cozy season = hosting season✨ and I’ve got you covered with 5 super cozy, creative & cute fall gatherings to bring your friends or family together! 

Trust me when I say you’ll want to save this for later or send to a friend who you want to do one of these with! 🎃

🧡PUMPKINS & PSLS: combine cozy home cafe vibes with an autumnal crafternoon 

🧡COOKBOOK CLUB POTLUCK: pick a cozy, seasonal themed cookbook and have all your friends pick a dish to make, bring & share! 

🧡 GILMORE GIRLS NIGHT IN: set up a spread from “Luke’s Diner” and spend an evening watching some of the best fall episodes (I’ve listed a ton in my Autumn watch list post) 

🧡SPIRITS & SPELLS SOIRÉE: get your coven together for a witchy cocktail party complete with dark candlelight and potion inspired sips 

🧡 MYSTERY BOOK CLUB: pick a fall friendly mystery, serve mulled wine and get together to discuss all the plot twists and theories 

Let me know if you’ll be hosting any of these and if you want to see a similar roundup for the holiday season in November!

#fallgirl #autumnparty #hostingideas #girlsnightideas #fallparty #cozyseason #cozyvibes #fall2025

The sweetest apple picking adventure to celebrate
The sweetest apple picking adventure to celebrate Lily’s first time in the northeast 🍎💕

#autumnvibes #fallactivities #applepicking #fallgirl #autumnaesthetic #falltrip #pinterestaesthetic

#ad Give me more sweet and cozy autumn mornings li
#ad Give me more sweet and cozy autumn mornings like this… 

🍁Wearing comfy, cute loungewear 
🍁Sipping an iced maple latte by the fire 
🍁Making a yummy pre-workout breakfast featuring my favorite pumpkin @noosayoghurt. It’s made with whole milk, tastes incredible and has the most smooth, velvety texture
🍁Fitting in a quick pilates workout 

The best part about romanticizing the little things is that the most basic routine somehow feels just a little more special. And I think we all deserve to start the day with feel-good rituals that we can lean into and fully appreciate, don’t you? 🤎

#cozyseason #autumnvibes #fallgirl #morningroutine #morningrituals #cozymornings #happyhabits


Now presenting your ultimate Autumn Watch List!! ✨🍿 🎥 

Get the popcorn + your fav snacks ready because this roundup has ALL the best cozy movies, shows and even fall specific episodes of your classic favorites (hands up if you love Gilmore Girls, Friends and Gossip Girl! 🙋🏻‍♀️) 

Swipe through, SAVE to reference later and share with someone who you think would love a cozy movie night in! 🧡

I hope you all find this roundup helpful and that it inspires many cozy evenings this season 🍂 

#autumnmovies #fallvibes #fallgirl #fallbucketlist #cozyseason #cozyselfcare #cozymovienight #movienightathome #tisautumn #feelslikefall

Got everything on my wish list right here 🍂🍁
Got everything on my wish list right here 🍂🍁🤎 

📍 Evergreen, CO | 📸 @hnguyenphoto 

#fallaesthetic #fallincolorado #familyphotoshoot #pinterestaesthetic #fallorado #leafpeeping #autumndays #babysfirstfall #newparentslife

a slow self care shower always hit different and i
a slow self care shower always hit different and it’s extra fun when it has you starting the week smelling like a pumpkin spice latte 😆🧡✨

~ comment “pumpkin” and I’ll send you all the links to everything you see here ~

#selfcaremorning #selfcareday #morningvibes #autumnrituals #fallgirl #feelslikefall #fallmorning #softwellness #softgirlera #asmrbeauty #morningroutine

✨October 3rd just became an official girlhood ho
✨October 3rd just became an official girlhood holiday✨

I’ve been listening to The Life of a Showgirl on repeat all day and can’t wait to sing my heart out at tonight’s release party!! 🎶💃🏻🪩 Who else is going and what are your favorite songs on @taylorswift’s new album? 

Mine are: The Fate of Ophelia, Opalite, Wish List, Cancelled and A Life of a Showgirl 

#swifties❤️ #ts12 #thelifeofashowgirl #october3rd

The most wholesome outing with my two favorite fur
The most wholesome outing with my two favorite furbabies, because our pups deserve a little fall sweet treat (and the quality time) too 🐶🧡☕️ 

#pumpkinseason #romanticizeyourlife #rescuedogmom #coffeerun #pslseason #fallvibes🍁 #coffeetreat

“I’m so glad I live in a world where there are
“I’m so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers” 🍁 

One of my fav quotes from a childhood literary heroine who taught me to romanticize the every day and that there’s always scope for the imagination 🧡 (and if you haven’t read Anne of Green Gables, you’re missing out) 

Since the holiday season kicks off next month, October is fully dedicated to all the best fall activities! Here are a few that I’m looking forward to: 

🍎 going apple picking 
🎃 visiting a pumpkin patch 
🍂 leaf peeping walks 
🍩 making apple cider donuts at home 
🎥 outdoor movie nights 
🍁 fall family photoshoot 
👻 celebrating Halloween as a family 
📖 cozy book club meeting 
🧡 hosting a themed dinner party 

What’s on your October bucket list? 

PS: this Taylor Swift audio is just getting me pumped for October 3rd! 🎶💕

#autumnishere #fallgirl #romanticizeyourlife

With October just days away and autumn officially
With October just days away and autumn officially underway, it’s the perfect time to create a little “solo date” bucket list of cozy activities to celebrate the season ☕️ 

Swipe and save for 10 ideas and let me know which one(s) you’ll be trying! 

#fallvibes #fallgirl #autumnselfcare #solodate #solodateideas #autumnadventures #fallbucketlist #iamanautumn #pinterestgirl

The sweetest leaf peeping Fallorado adventure with
The sweetest leaf peeping Fallorado adventure with my little fam & good friends🍁☕️ Swipe for a peek into my camera roll and for all the best fall vibes (+ the cutest baby duo at the end!)

📍Steamboat Springs 

#autumnincolorado #coloradofall #autumnvibes #autumnishere #leafpeeping #fallcolours #falltrip #autumnadventures

It’s #PumpkinSpice season and obviously this mea
It’s #PumpkinSpice season and obviously this means I needed to reshare my go-to Pumpkin Spice Protein smoothie that I make year after year (because it’s just that good) 🎃 

It’s creamy, healthy, and gives all the best fall vibes. SAVE this recipe to make later: 

✨1 banana 
✨2 pitted medjool dates
✨1/4 cup organic pumpkin puree 
✨1 scoop vanilla protein powder 
✨1 tbsp almond butter 
✨1 tbsp flax seeds 
✨ tsp of pumpkin pie spice 
✨ 1 cup unsweetened almond milk 
✨ ice 

Top with whipped coconut cream and some more pumpkin pie spice to make it a little *extra 

Let me know if you’ll be trying this! 🍁 

#healthysmoothie #fallsmoothie #pumpkinsmoothie #pslseason #pumpkinseason #healthylifestyle #autumnrecipes #fallrecipes #smoothielove


Popular Posts

Currently Pinning

  • a slow self care shower always hit different and it’s extra fun when it has you starting the week smelling like a pumpkin spice latte 😆🧡✨
  • Apple Cider Donut Bread - Broma Bakery
  • 5-Ingredient Fall Meal Prep Bowls | Easy & Delicious! 7
  • Creamy Lentil Sun-dried Tomato Soup | halfbakedharvest.com

Currently Pinning

  • a slow self care shower always hit different and it’s extra fun when it has you starting the week smelling like a pumpkin spice latte 😆🧡✨
  • Apple Cider Donut Bread - Broma Bakery
  • 5-Ingredient Fall Meal Prep Bowls | Easy & Delicious! 7

Sign up for my Newsletter 💌

Footer Widget Header

Subscribe

Join Me!

✨Cozy season = hosting season✨ and I’ve got ✨Cozy season = hosting season✨ and I’ve got you covered with 5 super cozy, creative & cute fall gatherings to bring your friends or family together! 

Trust me when I say you’ll want to save this for later or send to a friend who you want to do one of these with! 🎃

🧡PUMPKINS & PSLS: combine cozy home cafe vibes with an autumnal crafternoon 

🧡COOKBOOK CLUB POTLUCK: pick a cozy, seasonal themed cookbook and have all your friends pick a dish to make, bring & share! 

🧡 GILMORE GIRLS NIGHT IN: set up a spread from “Luke’s Diner” and spend an evening watching some of the best fall episodes (I’ve listed a ton in my Autumn watch list post) 

🧡SPIRITS & SPELLS SOIRÉE: get your coven together for a witchy cocktail party complete with dark candlelight and potion inspired sips 

🧡 MYSTERY BOOK CLUB: pick a fall friendly mystery, serve mulled wine and get together to discuss all the plot twists and theories 

Let me know if you’ll be hosting any of these and if you want to see a similar roundup for the holiday season in November!

#fallgirl #autumnparty #hostingideas #girlsnightideas #fallparty #cozyseason #cozyvibes #fall2025
The sweetest apple picking adventure to celebrate The sweetest apple picking adventure to celebrate Lily’s first time in the northeast 🍎💕

#autumnvibes #fallactivities #applepicking #fallgirl #autumnaesthetic #falltrip #pinterestaesthetic
#ad Give me more sweet and cozy autumn mornings li #ad Give me more sweet and cozy autumn mornings like this… 

🍁Wearing comfy, cute loungewear 
🍁Sipping an iced maple latte by the fire 
🍁Making a yummy pre-workout breakfast featuring my favorite pumpkin @noosayoghurt. It’s made with whole milk, tastes incredible and has the most smooth, velvety texture
🍁Fitting in a quick pilates workout 

The best part about romanticizing the little things is that the most basic routine somehow feels just a little more special. And I think we all deserve to start the day with feel-good rituals that we can lean into and fully appreciate, don’t you? 🤎

#cozyseason #autumnvibes #fallgirl #morningroutine #morningrituals #cozymornings #happyhabits
Now presenting your ultimate Autumn Watch List!! ✨🍿 🎥 

Get the popcorn + your fav snacks ready because this roundup has ALL the best cozy movies, shows and even fall specific episodes of your classic favorites (hands up if you love Gilmore Girls, Friends and Gossip Girl! 🙋🏻‍♀️) 

Swipe through, SAVE to reference later and share with someone who you think would love a cozy movie night in! 🧡

I hope you all find this roundup helpful and that it inspires many cozy evenings this season 🍂 

#autumnmovies #fallvibes #fallgirl #fallbucketlist #cozyseason #cozyselfcare #cozymovienight #movienightathome #tisautumn #feelslikefall
Got everything on my wish list right here 🍂🍁 Got everything on my wish list right here 🍂🍁🤎 

📍 Evergreen, CO | 📸 @hnguyenphoto 

#fallaesthetic #fallincolorado #familyphotoshoot #pinterestaesthetic #fallorado #leafpeeping #autumndays #babysfirstfall #newparentslife
a slow self care shower always hit different and i a slow self care shower always hit different and it’s extra fun when it has you starting the week smelling like a pumpkin spice latte 😆🧡✨

~ comment “pumpkin” and I’ll send you all the links to everything you see here ~

#selfcaremorning #selfcareday #morningvibes #autumnrituals #fallgirl #feelslikefall #fallmorning #softwellness #softgirlera #asmrbeauty #morningroutine
✨October 3rd just became an official girlhood ho ✨October 3rd just became an official girlhood holiday✨

I’ve been listening to The Life of a Showgirl on repeat all day and can’t wait to sing my heart out at tonight’s release party!! 🎶💃🏻🪩 Who else is going and what are your favorite songs on @taylorswift’s new album? 

Mine are: The Fate of Ophelia, Opalite, Wish List, Cancelled and A Life of a Showgirl 

#swifties❤️ #ts12 #thelifeofashowgirl #october3rd
The most wholesome outing with my two favorite fur The most wholesome outing with my two favorite furbabies, because our pups deserve a little fall sweet treat (and the quality time) too 🐶🧡☕️ 

#pumpkinseason #romanticizeyourlife #rescuedogmom #coffeerun #pslseason #fallvibes🍁 #coffeetreat
“I’m so glad I live in a world where there are “I’m so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers” 🍁 

One of my fav quotes from a childhood literary heroine who taught me to romanticize the every day and that there’s always scope for the imagination 🧡 (and if you haven’t read Anne of Green Gables, you’re missing out) 

Since the holiday season kicks off next month, October is fully dedicated to all the best fall activities! Here are a few that I’m looking forward to: 

🍎 going apple picking 
🎃 visiting a pumpkin patch 
🍂 leaf peeping walks 
🍩 making apple cider donuts at home 
🎥 outdoor movie nights 
🍁 fall family photoshoot 
👻 celebrating Halloween as a family 
📖 cozy book club meeting 
🧡 hosting a themed dinner party 

What’s on your October bucket list? 

PS: this Taylor Swift audio is just getting me pumped for October 3rd! 🎶💕

#autumnishere #fallgirl #romanticizeyourlife
With October just days away and autumn officially With October just days away and autumn officially underway, it’s the perfect time to create a little “solo date” bucket list of cozy activities to celebrate the season ☕️ 

Swipe and save for 10 ideas and let me know which one(s) you’ll be trying! 

#fallvibes #fallgirl #autumnselfcare #solodate #solodateideas #autumnadventures #fallbucketlist #iamanautumn #pinterestgirl
The sweetest leaf peeping Fallorado adventure with The sweetest leaf peeping Fallorado adventure with my little fam & good friends🍁☕️ Swipe for a peek into my camera roll and for all the best fall vibes (+ the cutest baby duo at the end!)

📍Steamboat Springs 

#autumnincolorado #coloradofall #autumnvibes #autumnishere #leafpeeping #fallcolours #falltrip #autumnadventures
It’s #PumpkinSpice season and obviously this mea It’s #PumpkinSpice season and obviously this means I needed to reshare my go-to Pumpkin Spice Protein smoothie that I make year after year (because it’s just that good) 🎃 

It’s creamy, healthy, and gives all the best fall vibes. SAVE this recipe to make later: 

✨1 banana 
✨2 pitted medjool dates
✨1/4 cup organic pumpkin puree 
✨1 scoop vanilla protein powder 
✨1 tbsp almond butter 
✨1 tbsp flax seeds 
✨ tsp of pumpkin pie spice 
✨ 1 cup unsweetened almond milk 
✨ ice 

Top with whipped coconut cream and some more pumpkin pie spice to make it a little *extra 

Let me know if you’ll be trying this! 🍁 

#healthysmoothie #fallsmoothie #pumpkinsmoothie #pslseason #pumpkinseason #healthylifestyle #autumnrecipes #fallrecipes #smoothielove
Follow me on Instagram

Copyright © 2025 · Headstands & Heels · Blog Design by Little Blue Deer
Privacy Policy